Self Development

Having the best of both worlds

Would you rather choose and lose one thing you love or get both and enjoy the benefits?

Or stand the chance of losing everything if you don’t make a choice?

I get the mind is a little bit fickle when there is a lot to gain 

You want it hot and cold

You are in and out

You’re Back and forth 

You want Double fun

How long will your indecisiveness take?

“What do you want?”

“Ermmm I don’t know, I’m not so sure”

“What should I do? What’s the best decision?”

Maybe it’s actually time to listen to your heart and tell yourself what you really want. Only a few people are completely true to you no matter the crowd of friends you have. 

Deep down you know what you want. Make the decision.

This ranges from what to eat, the kind of career path to follow, religion, relationships, etc. 

I know many of you can relate asking your smartest friends, family members on their opinions in order to make your final decision.

  1. Don’t overthink the outcome of your decisions. Inasmuch as we can avoid certain mistakes, life is somewhat unpredictable. And you can’t control the outcome
  2. Think of the times you followed your instincts and it turned out well. Take the step. 

3. Choose what gives you a flexible option especially in the long run.

Let’s not be afraid to make mistakes and fail, though our logical mind convinces is that we need more time and we need to ask more people, the ultimate decision lies with us. 

You have to choose and get ready to lose or gain. 

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