Hello, 30: A Month of Joy, Growth & New Beginnings 🌸
If I could sum up May in a single word, it would be: abundant. Not just in material things, but in love, experiences, celebrations, and meaningful moments. From the start, I knew May would be special—it was my birthday month, after all—but I don’t think I realized just how full it would be. It turned out to be one of the most beautiful, heartwarming, and transformative months I’ve had in a long time.
It was beautiful, meaningful, and transformative. From the moment the month began, I could feel something shifting—not just around me, but within me. And maybe that’s what turning 30 does: it invites you to pause, look back with gratitude, and look ahead with renewed purpose.
May 2025 wasn’t just my birthday month. It was a month of celebration, deep reflection, divine alignment, and unexpected joy. A month where I felt held, seen, and reminded that life truly does get better when you step into it with openness and courage.
Landing Softly: Back from Lanzarote 🏖️
May began with me returning from a peaceful and refreshing trip to Lanzarote. It was the perfect way to transition into a new month—and into a new chapter. The sun, the serenity, the slower pace of life—it gave me space to think, reflect, and reset. I came home feeling deeply restored and excited for what was next.
Straight back into work
Adjusting to new systems and meeting people came with its usual dose of nerves and excitement, but overall, it felt right. A gentle reminder that growth is often found in the unknown, and that new beginnings can be both humbling and empowering.
My Actual Birthday – May 7th 🎂
Then came the big day—May 7th, my 30th birthday. I knew I wanted to remember every part of it, so I filmed a vlog capturing the little and big moments that made the day so special.
The day started at 12am, when my amazing friend Esther surprised me. That early celebration set the tone for the whole day—intentional, joyful, and full of love. Even though I was tempted to take the day off, I decided to go into work. Despite the early excitement, I still went in to work (hello, adulting!), and that in itself felt symbolic—30 doesn’t mean slowing down, it means showing up with intention.
After work, I closed my laptop and went straight for a well-deserved Asian all-you-can-eat dinner (highly recommend celebrating with sushi and seafood!) alone. Later, I took myself to the cinema to watch Sinners. It was a full day, but one that felt completely mine.
The Real Party – May 10th: Retro Garden Vibes 🎉🌿
Of course, my main celebration was still to come. On May 10th, I hosted a Retro Garden Party—and it was nothing short of magical. The retro theme brought colour, laughter, and so much personality. People showed up looking amazing, the playlist was on point, and the vibe? Unmatched.
The garden was filled with joy, dancing, food, and warmth. It was the kind of day where time slowed down just enough for me to soak it all in. I received thoughtful gifts, heartfelt messages, and lots of hugs. What made it even more beautiful was the presence of friends who have been part of different seasons of my life. It was the best kind of gathering—one where joy felt contagious.
That day reminded me of the beauty of connection and the magic that happens when you allow people to show up for you. It also reminded me that joy multiplies when it’s shared.
Tiny Celebrations: One-Year-Old Birthday Joys 🎈👶
May also brought two very special baby milestones that warmed my heart in a completely different way. I had the joy of attending two one-year-old birthday parties, and they were absolutely adorable.
There’s something about being around babies—watching them smash cakes, toddle around with wide-eyed curiosity, and light up at the sight of balloons—that puts everything into perspective. These parties were filled with laughter, cute chaos, and genuine love from all the aunties and uncles (myself included 😄).
Celebrating these little lives reminded me of the innocence and simplicity that still exists in the world. It was also beautiful to witness young families surrounded by support, and to be part of those foundational moments in a child’s life.
Gifts, Grace & Growing Up 🎁✨
Throughout the month, I was showered with love—from friends, colleagues, family, and even strangers. I received meaningful gifts, yes, but I also received time, words, prayers, and quiet affirmations that I’m on the right path. It felt like God was gently reminding me that I am deeply loved, seen, and supported.
At 30, I’ve learned that growing up isn’t about rushing into perfection—it’s about growing into peace. Peace with who you are, what you’ve overcome, and what’s ahead. May was filled with those gentle nudges that reminded me I’m held and supported.
Growth also brings its own set of challenges. I had moments of reflection, where I wrestled with big questions about purpose, relationships, and who I’m becoming. But even those moments felt sacred. At 30, I’m learning to hold space for both joy and uncertainty. To celebrate progress while still being honest about the process.
Of course, not every day was glamorous or easy—but even the harder moments were laced with grace. I allowed myself to reflect, ask hard questions, and embrace both the stillness and the movement.
What May Taught Me 🌱
This May taught me that:
Joy multiplies when shared. You’re allowed to take up space in celebration. Milestones matter—and they deserve to be honoured. Babies dancing to Afrobeats will heal your soul. You don’t need to have everything figured out to be deeply grateful.
Looking Ahead… 🥂
So, here’s to 30.
To more meaningful connections.
To showing up fully, even when it’s scary.
To being soft and strong at the same time.
To dancing in gardens, surprising friends at midnight, and eating good food without guilt.
Now that the month has come to an end, I find myself sitting with immense gratitude. May reminded me that life doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful. That we’re allowed to celebrate our wins, reflect on our journey, and dream boldly all at once.
It taught me that stepping into 30 isn’t about having it all figured out—it’s about showing up with intention, love, and faith. It’s about anchoring yourself in who you are, and being open to who you’re still becoming.
May 2025 was a month I’ll carry with me for a long time—and I’m beyond grateful for how it unfolded.
If the rest of this decade looks anything like this month, then I know I’m in for something truly special. 💛